I saw a great quote recently: "People are like tea bags—you can’t tell how strong they are until you put them in hot water." Interesting and well put...
Living in the Present
The Election
Why Is There Suffering?
What More Do We Want?
As I have written before, the major human delusion and desire is to find peace and happiness by getting everything just right—and then freezing things so they do not change. We imagine that if we just try hard enough we can somehow enter that Promised Land. If that is your plan I’m afraid I have some bad news...
Language, the Senses, and True Knowledge
Just Trying to Help!
East West Humor
Wow. What a spate of not-the-most-comforting news these days. Ukraine? Israel? Political strife? Recession fears? Martians attack New York City? (O.K.—maybe I made that one up…) Time for a little levity. Here are some of my favorite cute stories from East West. A smile on the face is often a cure for what ails you…
What is the Path?
The Value of Satsang
Many have perhaps heard the term satsang. It is Sanskrit and means "collection of truth seekers." There is something called the Three Pillars of Buddhism: The Buddha, Dharma, and Sangha. The Buddha is the perfect example for each of us. The Dharma is essentially the teachings. The Sangha/Satsang is the collection of truth-seekers. Why are gatherings of devotees so important as to be central to Buddhist teachings?
What is the True Purpose of Prayer?
Most spiritual traditions make it quite clear that Spirit/God/The Divine knows better than we do what is best for us. That is why it pays to ask for Divine Guidance. But if that is the case, why bother to pray? Are we letting Spirit know something that is not already known? And if not, what’s the point of the attempted communication? Maybe we think Spirit might be having a memory lapse, so we are helping out? (I think that’s mostly me these days, actually…)
What is the Purpose of Spiritual Imagery?
Clearly one cannot see Spirit, nor touch it. In fact, none of our senses can make it known or heighten our awareness of its presence. If that is so, why do we have images of saints, enlightened beings, or other images on our altars, walls, and shelves?
Well, we live in a material world and we thus have a generally materially-oriented mind. We can try to conceive of Spirit as something like "The Cosmic Ground of Being," but I have to say, for me at least, that is not especially inspiring or heart-opening.
Is Joy Our Birthright?
Yes! Thus completes the shortest newsletter ever. See you next week. :-) Oh, wait, maybe I should explain? Well... since you asked...
We tend to think of uplifted states as outside of ourselves. "Looking for inner peace." The "search for happiness." "Trying to find myself." But this is a confusion of what is really going on. Joy is our nature and joy is within everyone... even you! The more appropriate question is, "If joy is within me, what am I doing that prevents me from knowing it and feeling it?"
God's Kitten
One of India's great lights was named Lahiri Mahasaya. There was another great soul in India named Trailanga Swami. Trailanga referred to Lahiri as "God's kitten."
Trailanga's disciples naturally asked him what he meant by that. He explained that a kitten is picked up by the scruff of the neck by its mother and instantly and completely relaxes. The kitten totally trusts the mother and knows it will be taken to wherever is best.
Why Are We Here?
Well, that's sort of a big question, so before jumping in I thought to tell a story:
George Washington Carver was born into slavery and became a deeply spiritual man. He also had an insatiable curiosity about—well—almost everything. One day as he was praying, he asked God, "What is the purpose of everything? I want to understand it all!" God answered, "Well, George, that's a mighty big question for a little fella like you." "O.K. then," George said, "how about telling me everything there is to know about the peanut?" God answered, "O.K... now we're talking."
Our Habit of Snapping to Judgment
This is a story that has made the rounds over the years, but is just too good not to share…
There was a businesswoman sitting in the airport waiting for her flight. A gentleman sat down next to her. Her open bag of mini-cookies was between them. She reached in, grabbed one, and started to munch. A moment later he smiled at her and he reached in and grabbed one himself, not saying a word.
You Can't Beat the Darkness With a Stick
It is easy to see something that is "off" and allow a desire to blot it out to well up within us. This is of course understandable, but when it comes to dealing with ourselves, often not the right idea. It is not, of course, that discipline and will power have no value—they obviously have great value—but using our will to prevent a negative tendency can be exhausting and somewhat self-defeating.
We Are Not in Charge
I believe a humorous story can often be more effective than the expounding of an idea. To that end, there are a couple of stories I’d like to share this week with a similar theme: that we are not as much in charge as we think! The part of our lives that is our responsibility should receive 100% of our focus and energy, of course, but there is more going on beneath the surface than we are aware of…
Even-Minded and Cheerful
Yogananda spoke about being even-minded and cheerful in all circumstances. The mind immediately goes to an extreme. "Do you mean to tell me that if this horrible thing happens [fill in your own blank] I am supposed to stay even-minded and cheerful? How absurd!"
This is a trick of the mind. Rather than seeing success as directional improvement, it latches onto an extreme, to show that whatever thought it does not like is therefore unrealistic.